Sometimes leaving isn’t loud.

Sometimes it’s quiet, painful, and misunderstood.

In Their Choice: My Truth, Rosalind Smith-Ruffin shares a deeply personal journey of love, loss, faith, and survival. After nearly two decades of marriage, she found herself walking away—not because she stopped loving, but because staying was slowly costing her peace, her health, and her sense of self.

This memoir is not about blame.

It is about truth.

Through chapters marked by uncertainty, emotional isolation, addiction, and spiritual wrestling, Rosalind reveals what it means to stand when support is absent, to heal when answers never come, and to trust God when relationships fall silent. With raw honesty and unwavering faith, she reflects on motherhood, self-worth, sobriety, and the quiet strength it takes to rebuild a life from broken pieces.

This book is for the woman who:

Loved deeply but had to choose herself

Was misunderstood, judged, or left without support

Found strength through faith when people fell away

Is learning that healing doesn’t require permission

Their Choice: My Truth is a testimony of resilience, grace, and walking forward—even when the road

ahead is uncertain.